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“It’s as though I were living at last in my eyes, as I have always dreamed of doing, and I think then I know why I’ve come here: to see, and so to go out against new things—oh god how easily—like air in a breeze. It’s true there are moments—foolish moments, ecstasy on a tree stump—when I’m all but gone, scattered I like to think like seed…”
William Gass, In the Heart of the Heart of the Country
(Photo: Brad Ewell)
Life After the Fog -- A Year-Long Group for Adopted People
What would you do if you felt supported and safe?
A Couple of Sections from my New Book on Adopted People and Writing
I just finished a book called Write or Die, Writing Ideas for Adopted People. Here’s a peek inside.
Song of My Selves--Guest Blog Post by Mike Trupiano
Hi, I’m Mike and I’m a multiplicity of options addict.
Adoption and Guilt
I’ve been thinking about guilt because it’s this month’s topic in the Zoom class Joyce Maguire Pavao and I are leading for a group of adopted people.
70/30 or How Aware are You of You? or Fun with the Megaphone Voice
I like to think in the megaphone voice which, when I type, is all caps. I like to imagine what it would have been like if, when I was small, I could have talked to those around me in the megaphone voice with the awareness I have now about the things I was struggling with as an adopted person.
Giving Away Mrs. Beasley--Guest Blog Post by Elisa Nickerson
One Christmas Eve, I decided that I would bring Mrs. Beasley to the church and put her in the pile of toys on the altar.
Melanie Toth on Our Yoga Retreat in Tuscany
Ever since my first retreat to Italy in 2019, I've been dreaming my way back.
Fearlessness, Recklessness, Courage, Adoption
We didn’t ask to be born. We didn’t ask our mother’s to give us up. (Or, who knows, maybe we did.) But we’re here.