Adoption Life Blog

“It’s as though I were living at last in my eyes, as I have always dreamed of doing, and I think then I know why I’ve come here: to see, and so to go out against new things—oh god how easily—like air in a breeze. It’s true there are moments—foolish moments, ecstasy on a tree stump—when I’m all but gone, scattered I like to think like seed…”

William Gass, In the Heart of the Heart of the Country

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The Art of Feeling Goodbye

It occurred today that I keep leaving places, people, and things because some part of me is trying to figure out how to get goodbye right.

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Gratitude, Adoption, and Feeling the Impossible

Out in the world when I tell someone I’m adopted and they tell me I must be grateful, something else entirely happens. It’s like my cells are bumper cars and they start crashing into each other.

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Being the Dream

It occurred to me today as I was packing that it’s not so much about chasing a dream as being it.

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Dying for Attention

Sharing of yourself can be so complicated when you don’t have a sense of what the rules are.

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