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“It’s as though I were living at last in my eyes, as I have always dreamed of doing, and I think then I know why I’ve come here: to see, and so to go out against new things—oh god how easily—like air in a breeze. It’s true there are moments—foolish moments, ecstasy on a tree stump—when I’m all but gone, scattered I like to think like seed…”
William Gass, In the Heart of the Heart of the Country
Emotions As Doorways Into Your Story Part 1
So many people want to write some version of their life story and, even though it's something they lived, something they know, they can't do it.
What We're Up Against In The Adoptee Subconscious Mind And A Meditation To Make You Feel Loved And Seen
I created six groups of three adopted people and gave them ten minutes to act like one brain and come up with a list of what they believed were the negative messages …
Three Words That Can Change A Life
I was trying to figure out how to turn the air conditioner on with my key fob so I could leave Bird in the car while I ran in to grab some things
Why I Hate My Riding Lessons
My helmet cost over $400. I thought the price was a code. Remember when candy bars were a quarter?
2. The love I had for horses as a kid has been replaced by fear.
How Friday Ate My Book And Made My Day
When my daughter Keats was a little girl, she and I went to 4th Street in Berkeley one day to get away from the Los Gatos heat and to do a little don't-really-have-money-but-we-can-look shopping.
God Is In The Details Or Brad Loves Bugs Or Flower Porn
Someone got a macro lens and is seeing the world--bugs and flying creatures you might tend to swat–like a person deeply in love. Maybe not like a person.
Being Adopted And Wanting To Go Home Is A Buzz Kill
When I first left home at 18 to go to college, I was back home within a year. When I left again, and then again, and then again to go to college, I kept coming home.
Leaving Home When You Are Adopted
I've been living in my childhood town now for two years, and in a month or so I'll pack up and go back to California.
ANGER, WRITING, AND THE LIGHTNING STRIKE OF TRUTH
When a student warns me ahead of time, "Sorry this is so angry," I feel excited. Something real is about to happen.
When You Think You've Hit Bottom, And Then Things Get Worse
Someone wrote to me that things were bad, really bad. Not only had he been hurt on his job, but when he went back he saw how terrible the working conditions really were, and so he quit.
Guest Post By Brad Ewell On Writer's Block And The Price Of The Ticket
On Tuesday in our weekly group writing class, Anne talked about how she’d had, for a lack of a better word, writer's block after the death of her adoptive dad.
Adoptee Fatigue (Waves Of Exhaustion)
To be both one thing and another thing at the same time inherently takes more energy that being just one thing.